Complicated People

Sunday, May 17th, 2026

Bible Verse

James 1:19

"Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry."

Connection

Everyone has that person in their life when they make things complicated. Is that person at work, a committee you are on, a sport you play on, a friend, or a family member? It can be hard to handle, especially in the moment when the situation may be difficult. It may be overwhelming and your emotions take over. As hard as it may be, you have to have self control, and have the ability to listen and understand someone. It's about having patience, and believing in the power of peace during these uncomfortable moments. God wants us to have self control, and to think before we react. God wants us to be a believer and encourager to having peace and calm in every situation. It is human nature to have emotions, but it's how we handle them is what's important.

I know I reminded everyone once in a while of someone that is hard to handle. My emotions are put to the test every time this person comes around. It's so difficult, because it's so easy to have your emotions take over your body. It has taken years, but I have trained my brain to stop and listen. Not to react and let my emotions to take over, especially with the words that are being said to me. Taking deep breaths help me in the moment too. I have trained my brain to use positive self-talk to get me through every hard situation in my life. Remember, God wants us to stop and listen, and then to react in a positive way.

Devotion Next time you are put in a situation when you encounter a complicated person, first take some deep breaths (inhale for 4 seconds, hold for 4 seconds, and exhale for 8 seconds). This helps you relax tense muscles, and it make you feel more focused. Next, stop and truly listen to the person. This may also help clarify misunderstandings, and cause you to not react in a negative way. Your emotions are more at peace, and then you will be able to respond in a more positive way.